Sunday, 5 June 2011

Fear of being Wrong

Focusing on being right rather than making money comes from the traders’ ego. It is the ego that equates the trader’s net worth with his/self-worth which leads to profits being taken too quickly or to exit at break even.

Trading throws up many issues regarding one’s relationship to money. An internal conflict with making money or needing to be perfect can make it difficult to exit a trade at a loss because it damages your self-image of perfection. Or you may have grown up feeling guilty about having money so you subconsciously find a way to give it back to the market. To avoid self-sabotage, the ego has to stop protecting these versions of the self.

Trading is a probability game and there will always be losses. Being a perfectionist is only setting oneself up for failure. If you cannot take a loss when it is small because you have to be perfect, then this loss will often grow and grow into a much larger one.

Making mistakes has different effects on individuals. Bad grades might have caused parental disapproval and you felt small and worthless. We are so susceptible to the feedback from others. When we are children, feedback can have long-lasting and unforeseen consequences. Many of us never fully recover from the emotional effects of being punished for making mistakes. Neural pathways become ingrained in the brain which attach emotions to learning experiences. When these emotions are negative, they interfere with our ability to learn in a healthy and constructive manner.

Your trading plan must account for the emotions you are likely to experience, particularly those related to fear. As a trader you must move from a fearful, apprehensive mindset to one of confidence, one which enables you to learn from your mistakes. You have to believe in your ability to make more money than your losses. That makes it easier to continue to place trades after a string of losing positions.

Successful forex trading is about overcoming the major fears, gain confidence in your trading method and even more confidence in yourself. If the different manifestations of fear can be understood, the trader is well-equipped to turn fear from a destructive force into one of our most vital assets when operating in the market.

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